This morning, as I walked through town — seeing all those guys going out to buy flowers and little heart-shaped chocolates, I thought of a cutesy story to write.

You know, about love, and all that jazz.

Now, however, it’s 12:11 AM. Post V-Day.

And you know why I’m not sharing my cutesy story?

Because I’m up marking a hot, steaming pile of assignments for third year students who, well, to put it gently, don’t give a damn.

Happy Valentines day, bitches.

I am told that beautiful women are everywhere.

No. Really.

They’re literally everywhere. They’re in every nook and every cranny, every street and every corner. They have big blue eyes and small brown ones, long blonde hair and short raven hair. Legs that reach the skies. Soft, velvety skin. And they love to tease us with their skirty skirts.

You — you could very well be one of these beautiful women.

You probably are. Don’t lie.

But it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter because I can’t see them. I know it sounds crazy, but it’s true. I can’t see any of them.

It started a few years ago. That’s when the numbness started. But it’s worse, now. It’s so bad, I can’t feel anything.

Imagine this: I’m walking down the street with a friend, and a girls passes in the distance. So my friend’s all, “She’s pretty cute”, right?

“Hrmm…” I’d mumble, looking up for a second. “Yeah, she’s alright…”

That’s it. “She’s alright”. Not, “she’s spectacular,” or “she’s gorgeous”, and never ever is she “wow”. I can’t remember how long it’s been since I’ve had a ‘Wow’ moment. They just stopped happening.

These women — these women I pass on the streets or see at the University — they could be Venus and it wouldn’t matter. They could be Jennifer Connelly or Jessica Alba in the flesh. Even Audrey Hepburn, back from the dead. I wouldn’t have even raised an eyebrow.

Because I’m numb, you see.

The thing is, I do see them; I see that they’re pretty, I see that they’re slim and have a nice figure, and I see that they have great hair. But I don’t really see them, you know? It’s more like I’m a judge, rather than a spectator.

I’m impartial. Neutral and unaffected.

But this numbness, it doesn’t take the Crane brothers to figure out what brings it on. I actually know the cause.

My days are roughly the same, day in day out. I wake up in the morning and haul my ass to work. If I decide beforehand to bring a lunch and dinner to work, I’ll stay there until eight or nine in the evening. If I don’t bring a dinner, I’ll head home at six to cook myself one or, if I’m feeling particularly adventurous, I’ll head to dining hall for dinner. At ten, it’s gym-time, and by 11:30 PM, I’m back home.

Occasionally, I’ll play rugby with the college in the evenings, and that helps break up the monotony. But for the most part, it’s an easy cut-and-paste affair.

Do I mind that my life is structured like this? Maybe. But it’s what I do. That’s the best answer I can give to friends and family who criticize me about my lifestyle. It’s what I do. At least for now.

Besides, that’s not the real problem.

At night, I prepare for my slumber with an episode from a favoured television series or an interesting piece of cinema.

The choices are endless. And the women, well, the women are simply delightful.

Maybe I’ll watch an episode of House and wonder whether all doctors come with the looks of Allison Cameron (Jennifer Morrison) or the wit of “Thirteen” (Olivia Wilde). Reliving high school is as easy as popping in The O.C., where I can follow Melissa, Summer, and Taylor (Barton, Bilson, and Reeser) through their four years. And if I’m in the mood for sand and beaches, I can always spend some time with Kate (Evangeline Lilly) and Claire (Emilie de Ravin) on Lost island.

And then there are the movies.

I can spend time listening to the poetic ramblings of Juno (Ellen Page). I can fight despair and temptation alongside Jennifer Connelly in Requiem for a Dream. I can laugh at the deadpan humour of Zooey Deschanel in Almost Famous.

The list goes on.

The beauty of it is, not only are these women beautiful and gorgeous, but they’re funny, smart, and sassy. They wake up looking great, and they say and do things no real woman would.

Because, duh, they’re exactly that: not real.

But it doesn’t matter.

Because these women, they get me.

When the gorgeous Charlotte (Scarlett Johansson) in Lost in Translation lies next to Bob (Bill Murray) and asks, “Does it get any easier?” — that’s the kind of connection I want. That’s the kind of relationship I need. But of course, I can’t have it.

There isn’t really a 24 year old, lost and confused, beautiful Yalie philosophy graduate named Charlotte. And even if there was, it’s doubtful I’ll ever meet her on a trip to Tokyo.

But that doesn’t stop me from hoping.

Real women are hard. Even if they have the looks of Number Six (Tricia Helfer), the intellect of Temperance Brennan (Emily Deschanel), and the sardonic wit of Lorelei Gilmore (Lauren Graham), they won’t know you. They won’t really know you.

It’s just not the same.

And so I go to work, I come home, and I escape in the company of these lovely — albeit fictitious — women. It’s escapism at its best.

I realize it’s sad. It’s humiliating. Wrong, even.

But there’s nothing I can do.

I’m numb, you see.

You know, there’s this time in every teenager’s life when the girl or guy of his or her dreams appear, backlit with the surreal glow of the heavens and hair blowing dramatically like in those shampoo commercials.

This is way, way before cynicism and bitterness sets in and we realize that in reality, people don’t actually come out of the factory set to these heavenly specs.

For weeks, I’ve been trying to write about mine. You know, the girl who once appeared to me as if sent via Express Post from God.

But the words never seem to come out right.

Funny.

I’ve been going to the gym.

Five days a week. Sometimes six.

Same time. Same place.

But Anna — she’s like gone, man. Vanished. Poof. I haven’t seen her since.

It’s like she never existed.

Her last words to me were, “I’m sure I’ll see you around.”

Damnit. She lied. She totally lied.

I got the “see you around” brush-off from Anna Stern. Anna Stern.

Oh man. That’s depressing.

Spotted through the glass window of Linacre College, in the dimly lit music room:

A piano and its nighttime muse, a boy with tousled black hair. He played with his eyes closed. His head swaying gently to the music.

And beside him, a girl.

Her arms wrapped tightly around him.

Her head snugly propped into his side.

Now if that doesn’t renew your faith in true love, you’d best give up altogether.